Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Overcoming relationship problems

 Relationships end too soon because people stop putting the same effort to keep you as they did to win you.

I seriously over think everything, which makes me stress myself out and create problems that weren't even there in the first place.

 Cry as hard as you want to. But always make sure: when you stop crying, you'll never cry for the same reason again.

"You only have to do a few things right in your life, so long as you don't do too many things wrong." Warren Buffett

Sometimes it's not the pain that makes you suffer, it's your own negative thought that makes things seem
 worse.

i’ve got 99 problems and 86 of them are completely made up scenarios in my head that i'm stressing about for absolutely no logical reason

All the love in the past was real, & remains with us always. Anything else was a mortal illusion, remaining only if we bring it with us. Marianne Williamson

Face your deficiencies and acknowledge them. But do not let them master you. -Hellen Keller

Learn 2 enjoy every minute of ur life. Be happy now. Don't wait 4 something outside of urself 2 make u happy in the future.~Earl Nightingale

"Be present - it is the only moment that matters." Dan Millman

"We have to go for what we think we're fully capable of, not limit ourselves by what we've been in the past." - Vivek Paul

You can conquer almost any fear if you will only make up your mind to do so. ~ Dale Carnegie

The value of actions depends on the courage they require. Napoleon Hill

Counselor's advice

 "You've got to go out on a limb sometimes because that's where the fruit is." Will Rogers

 Don't be mad when someone else starts to appreciate the person you took for granted. What you won't do, someone else will.

A girl that remains loyal to you without a relationship is a girl you should marry.

You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore. Christopher Columbus

 “If a man does not know to what port he is steering, no wind is favorable to him.” Seneca

Be with someone who knows exactly what they have when they have you. Not someone who'll realize it when they've lost you.

What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy.

 Those things you don't like in others take care to correct it in yourself. We see things not as they are but as we are!

 Stop wasting your tears on someone who doesn't care enough to make you smile.

Trust before you love. Know before you judge. Commit before you promise.

 Be with someone who won’t stay mad at you, who can’t stand not talking to you, and who’s afraid of losing you.

Be with someone who loves you for who you are, not who they want you to be.

What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy.

Having a heart and being afraid to love someone, is like having wings and being afraid of heights. Take a chance in life.

I see what you see. I feel what you feel. Some beyond beauty. Some hurt so deeply there are no words. No matter what, I'm here.

If someone SERIOUSLY wants to be a part of your life, they will SERIOUSLY make an effort to be in it.

The more you care, the more you have to lose. - Harry Potter

Sometimes you have to ignore things and just move on. There are plenty of things in life that are more important.

If you are dealing with what you perceive are difficult issues in your life, you need to take great care of YOU in all ways. ~ Lori Moreno

You cannot tailor-make the situations in life but you can tailor-make the attitudes to fit those situations. -- Zig Ziglar

 Be good enough to forgive someone, but don't be stupid enough to trust them again"

Don’t push away the people who truly care about you, because one day, you will push them away, and they won’t come back.

 You left without a reason, don't come back with an excuse.

When I look back on my life, I see pain, mistakes and heartaches. When I looke in the mirror, I see strength, learned lessons, and pride in myself.  

Funny facts about people

It's sad that nowadays you have to be attractive for people to care about you..

People say everything happens for a reason. So when I punch you in the face, remember I have a reason.

Magic Words

 You can replace me, but you can't replace the memories you had with me.

I want a relationship where we talk like best friends, play like kids, argue like husband and wife, and protect each other like siblings.

You can fake your smiles and laughter's, but you can never fake your tears and feelings.

I'm not a second option. You either choose me or you damn lose me.

Missing you is my hobby, caring for you is my job, making you happy is my duty and loving you is my life.

I can't promise that things will be perfect, but I swear I'll never leave.

Mornings would be so much better if I woke up next to you.

if you only knew how much l think about you.

Don't expect things to happen. It's better to feel surprised, than be disappointed.

When Life is grand I think of you. When Life throws me to the floor I think of you. And no matter what, as I close my eyes, I think of you.

I want a relationship where we can act like idiots, talk about the most random stuff, share music, and never get tired of each other.

 Someone who truly loves you, sees what a mess you can be, how moody you can get, and how hard you can be to handle, but still wants you.

A real man can stay loyal to his woman without getting sidetracked by easy girls

I miss you. I miss your hugs. I miss your kisses. When I'm with you, my heart skips a beat. And when you're gone, I cant breath. I love you.

Don't choose the better guy. Choose the guy that's gonna make you a better girl.

I hate when you treat me so special for one day and next day I'm just nothing for you.

Let go

How many times do you need to get hurt for you to know it's time to let go?

Sometimes you need to let go, because you will never find the right person if you are still with the wrong one.

What hurts you today, makes you stronger tomorrow.

I trusted you But now your words mean nothing to me Because your actions spoke the truth.

Pretending to be happy when you're in pain is just an example of how strong you are as a person.

Words that can instantly make a girl smile

 How to impress a woman: kiss, hug, compliment, love, tease, protect, listen, support. How to impress a man: Show up naked with beer

Never underestimate the power of love. There is nothing love can't do.

There are 3 sets of There are 3 sets of words that can instantly make a girl smile: "You are beautiful" "I miss you" & "I love you.": "You are beautiful" "I miss you" & "I love you."

pretty girl: i'd rather be called beautiful than hot. me: i'll take what i can get.

I still have feelings for you and it makes me feel stupid.

I love when he holds my hand in public.

I'm going to punch you in the mouth.. With my mouth. Softly.. because I like you..

You did everything. You accepted me for who I am, and not for what you wanted me to be. - The Vow

"There is none like you. No one else can touch my heart like you do. I could search for all eternity Lord, and find, there is none like you"

Making decision

Be mindful what you decide about someone you don't know, for it will invariably reveal less of them & more of you.

'Why do we have to listen to our hearts?' 'Because, wherever your heart is, that is where you'll find your treasure.' 'But my heart is agitated,"' the boy said. 'It has its dreams, it gets emotional, and it's become passionate over a woman of the desert.

Feelings

Just because you're attractive, doesn't mean you're my type.

When a boy calls you cute he likes your face. When he calls you hot he likes your body. When he calls you beautiful he likes your heart.

You're beautiful. Wouldn't you rather wait for one amazing guy to notice that, rather than a bunch of stupid ones?

The longer you hide your feelings for someone, the more you fall for them.

You can close your eyes to the things you don't want to see, but you can't close your heart to the things you don't want to feel.

Saturday, April 27, 2013

A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone with no service

A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone with no service, all you can do is play games.

Tips how to understand women love languages

Seriously boys don't understand how much a little word or move can affect a girl. 

Dear ex, I won't block you, or delete you. I'm keeping you there, so you're able to see how happy I am without you.

A girl doesn't need to tell you straight up how she feels. It's written all over the way she acts when you're around.

If I try to talk to you and you seem uninterested, I will never try to talk to you ever again.

Girls are sensitive, they overthink every little thing and they care way more than they should, but that’s what makes their love so strong.

When a girl says "It's okay" "I'm fine" or "Don't worry about it" it's not okay she's not fine and you should definitely worry about it.

When a girl cries, it's not usually over one thing. It's built up anger and emotions that she's been holding in for too long.

When a girl is acting like she doesn't care about you anymore, that's when she needs you the most.

I don't understand our relationship. Sometimes, we're friends. Sometimes, we're more then friends. Other times, I'm just a stranger to you.

Sometimes I push you away, because I need you to pull me closer.

I think I’m falling for you. But that’s the scary part. I really don’t want to get hurt like every other time.

Someday, you'll miss me like I missed you. Someday, you'll need me like I needed you. Someday, you'll love me but I won't love you.

If I'm attracted to you, I'll probably act awkward around you.

One look, one word, one kiss... they can all mean so much whe
n it’s from that one special person.


You say sorry but your actions say you don't care.

Every girl has a guy that she won’t stop loving, and every guy has a girl that he won’t stop fighting for.

Real girlfriend will be on your ass, text you everyday, fight with you, cares about you, listens to you, and loves you like no girl has.

For every day, I miss you. For every hour, I need you. For every minute, I feel you. For every second, I want you. Forever, I love you.

I don't know where I stand with you, nor do I know what I mean to you. All I know is that every time I think of you, I want to be with you.

I hate it when I can't stop thinking about that one person, and deep down inside I know they probably haven't thought about me once.

I don’t need someone that sees what’s good about me. I need someone that sees the bad and still wants me.

One look, one smile, one word, one hug, one text, one call, they can all mean so much when it's from that special person.

"A man's biggest mistake is giving another man the opportunity to make his woman's heart smile"

 Friendship + Trust = Love. First show me true Friendship, and show me pure Trust. Then, you may whisper 'I Love You'.

I'm gonna fall for someone who will make me feel that loving them is the greatest decision I've ever made, not just another mistake.

Most people aren't worth crying over, the ones who are, will never make you cry.

Honestly, I would rather hear a guy say, "I made plans for us." Instead of the usual, "I don't know, it's whatever you wanna do

When a female is used to getting hurt, she won't know how it feels when a man starts to appreciate her, so she ends up pushing him away.

 She wants a boy to look at her while she's smiling with friends and doing stupid things and she wants him to think "damn, I love that girl"

 If you miss her, you should tell her. If you love her, you should show it. She's worth the hurt, you already know it. Make her feel special

 Talking to you, laughing with you, being with you, changes my whole mood.

I'm not ignoring you, I'm waiting to see if you'll make the effort for once.

Don't say you miss me when you don't even try to talk to me.

I hate when you treat me so special for one day and next day I'm just nothing for you.

My world really isn't my world if you aren't in it.

It's nice to have someone in your life who can make you smile even when they're not around.

Say what you want, do what you please. But I promise you later down the road, when I'm gone, you'll regret not treating me better.

Girls are sensitive, they overthink every little thing and they care way more than they should, but that’s what makes their love so strong.

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Sad facts about people

People who laugh a lot , are the most who are dying inside.

Life is a constant change

Sometimes I get this urge to talk to you, and then I remember that you're a completely different person now, it's just sad.

People who laugh a lot , are the most who are dying inside.

Funny Memories 101

That awkward moment when you remember something funny, and can't stop smiling like an idiot.

Toxic People 101

People are quick to judge, but slow to correct themselves.

Those that talk down to you are just trying to walk tall by making u feel small. Rise above.

Moving On




Love doesn't always end the way we want it to. But it always ends the way it is supposed to. If one love is lost, it only means that another one, sometimes better...sometimes not, but always, another love is waiting for you just around the corner.

I called on your name, O LORD, from the depths of the pit; you heard my plea,
“Do not close your ear to my cry for help, but give me relief!” You came near
when I called on you; you said, “Do not fear!” —Lamentations 3:55-57


No relationship is a waste of time. The wrong ones are there to teach you the lessons that prepare you for the right ones.

Dwelling on past bad decisions you've made only allows those decisions to keep defining you. Forgive yourself & move on.

Stop holding onto what hurts, and make room for what feels good.

It's ok to fall apart sometimes, just remember to get back up again.

Don't promise me things. I don't trust words, I trust actions.

Dear boys, when a girl says "I'm fine." talk to her until the real truth comes out.


It takes a heart to forgive and it takes a brain to move on.

Everything in your life is perfect, even the seeming struggle and pain. Trust that everything happens for a reason.


If a door closes today, know that a new one and most likely better one will be there for you to open tomorrow.